Sunday, February 22, 2009

The past few weeks

I have been terrible at taking pictures lately, but here are a few random ones from the past few weeks. I took the boys to the baseball park the other day and the only things Dallin grabbed were his golf bag and club. He goes through phases with sports and this week it's golf. I sure hope he never gets to the football phase. Golf I can handle. It's a gentleman's sport. You wear collared shirts, you don't get knocked on your face.

Dallin wanted to take Taylor for a ride in his stroller the other day. Taylor, in all of his 23 pounds of glory, nearly busted it in half. It was meant for dolls but until Michael lets me buy D a doll, Taylor will have to suffice.

My Mom and Missy gave me a Bosch machine for Christmas. I absolutely LOVE it. Who knew I would ever be so excited about a kitchen appliance? Dallin is a master chef when it comes to bread. We make a batch at least once a week and my cute little assistant insists on doing all of the steps himself; he even has his own mini pans and mini rolling pin. I usually bake the bread during his nap, let it cool, and then put his loaves back in the cooled oven so that he can take them out when he wakes up (he still likes to use the hot pads). So cute.



We canned about 75 cans the other night for food storage. I let Dallin stay up because he loves helping me fill the cans. It took twice as long with him helping but we had a great time. For those of you who know Michael well, you will not be the least bit surprised that as Dallin unloaded the cans from a bag, Dallin lined them up perfectly in rows across the floor. So funny, I had to take a picture.


Taylor may be large, but he can cruise across the floor in record time. If he wants to go especially fast, he will put his head down so that his body is more aerodynamic.


My Mom and Missy came to visit us a couple of weeks ago. All I have to say is that we keep Joe's Farm Grill and Joe's BBQ in business. Love you guys- thanks for coming.

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Those blasted peanuts

Some days I feel like I am doing pretty well at the whole mothering thing. Other days, not so great. Tuesday was one of those not so great days. I had a dentist appointment and my friend watched the boys for me. In my rush, I forgot to tell my friend that Dallin has a severe peanut allergy. So mad at myself. You cannot believe how paranoid I have been around peanuts for the past year and a half since we learned of his allergy and then I just didn't think to say anything this time. My friend (who I feel so bad that I put in this situation) gave D a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. About half way through the sandwich he hunched over and complained of severe stomach pain. She called 911 and an ambulance came and looked him over. He hadn't had an anaphylactic reaction- which could cause him to progressively stop breathing (later I learned that he probably didn't have as severe a reaction because this was his first encounter with peanuts). They checked him out and said to watch for hives or difficulty breathing. I raced home from the dentist and as soon as I got there he threw up a couple of times (thank goodness he got most of the peanut butter out of his system) but was still in a bit of pain. We went home and he slept for a couple of hours. I checked on him every 2 minutes to make sure he was still breathing, but the nurse I talked to said we didn't need to do the epi pen or take him into the ER until we saw hives or labored breathing. His little body was bright red all over, like a sunburn, and he was just exhausted. He began to feel better that evening and even got his appetite back. He asked to go to Joe's Farm Grill and get a hamburger. Little guy- after all he had been through he just wanted a hamburger. So we loaded both boys in the car and went to Joe's. He progressively got better, had more energy, and the redness went down. The following day we went to his asthma/allergy doctor so that he could see how D was doing. We need to get more blood work done in about a month to see if his allergy has worsened (Levels 4, 5, and 6 put you in the category of a severe allergy with the possibility of an anaphylactic reaction- he was at a 4 before this incident). His doctor thinks his allergy may step up to a 5 or a 6 after this, but we'll find out in a month for sure. I can't explain my feelings these past few days other than a combination of anger (at myself), sadness, frustration, fear, discouragement, and finally, gratitude, that it wasn't worse and that he is back to being perfectly healthy and happy. It has been an extremely difficult thing for me these past couple of days to realize that my carelessness (I know it was an accident, but guilt is a powerful thing) has caused him pain and a potentially more severe allergy. I know that a peanut allergy is not the end of the world. Carrying around an epi pen and possibly having oral steroids and a trip to the ER is not the end of the world. Avoiding a particular food and constantly being on guard is not the end of the world. He'll be fine if we are careful, but I was hoping so desperately that he could out grow this, but any exposure pretty much rules that out. I'm writing this because I want you to be aware of his allergy just in case I let my guard down again. Dallin is doing so much better and I really am grateful that his reaction was less severe than it could have been. On a side note, he is obsessed with ambulances and firetrucks and the one time that both were right outside the house, he wasn't feeling well enough to enjoy it. :)